Reflections from the ongoing work of practice, leadership, and attention.
These essays reflect an ongoing practice of attention—exploring grief, leadership, belonging, and what it means to live into a new story, personally and collectively.
Stewarding the New Story: A Grand Synthesis of the New Story Stewards Program
How do we meet a world in upheaval? Through grounding, witnessing, shared grief, and connection to the divine, we begin to give the New Story form. A reflection on the New Story Stewards Program and how Spirit finds expression through our stewardship.
Something Rather Than Nothing
Every so often, my son and I fall into long conversations that stretch across everything—physics, philosophy, God, and what it means to live a good life. In one of those conversations, he asked a simple question: what does it mean to follow God? I didn’t have a definitive answer, but I found myself returning to something more basic—the fact that there is something rather than nothing, and what that might ask of us.
My Heart Doesn’t Fit in a Box
There is a growing amount of attention, energy, and legislation directed at a very small group of people. This piece steps back to ask why, and to explore the human, biological, and societal complexity we often ignore. A reflection on gender, grief, and the consequences of mistaking our categories for reality.
Learning to Live in Liminal Space
This synthesis reflects on the first five sessions of the New Story Stewards program, exploring how we learn to live in liminal space — the threshold between the Old Story that is unraveling and the New Story still emerging. Facing the reality of the polycrisis, it considers the practices of witnessing, grieving, prayer, and action as ways of grounding ourselves in humility, presence, and love while helping steward what comes next.
Listening to Survivors of Commercial Sexual Exploitation
I attended the Summit on Crime Survivors because I knew commercial sexual exploitation was an area I did not understand well enough. What stayed with me most deeply were the voices of survivors, and the question of what responsibility listening creates when listening alone is not enough.
A Veil to Protect Community
Not every act of transparency strengthens trust. At a recent council meeting, I found myself wrestling with whether a small, intentional veil—keeping outcomes public while resisting personalization—might actually help preserve community connection in a time when division comes easily.
Grief as Learning: A reflection on The Grieving Brain
A reflection on grief as a learning process—how the brain struggles to update after loss, and how attention, time, and care can slowly reshape our relationship to what has changed.